Sometimes, in order to smooth out the roughness of our actions, we rush to apologize. Apologies are considered as a way to correct errors or as compensation for possible inconveniences.
But often, by apologizing, you not only do not solve the problem, but, on the contrary, only make it worse. However, there is a great alternative to apologies. I want to tell you about it.
What’s wrong with an apology
First, when you apologize, you focus on the negative aspects. Before you mentioned it, this fact was invisible or insignificant to others. And now only the lazy one will not shake his head, saying: “Yes, indeed!..» Continue reading
Body language is a very important part of any communication. The position of our body and the movements we make when communicating with the other person can spoil or distort the perception of any of our words.
Understanding this, it seems logical for us to just make an effort and focus our attention on controlling our own body. However, it is worth considering that among all the bad habits, those that are associated with” wrong ” body language are the most difficult to root out.
We are so used to slouching, averting our eyes, and crossing our arms for no reason at all, that we usually don’t even notice it. Continue reading